imagine…

About me

Hi, I’m Pat :) I am glad you have stopped by and are considering the idea of therapy.

I have been a therapist for a long time- almost 30 years now- and I really do love it! If you decide to work with me, it will be up to you what you want to work on. We will set a goal together, and work towards that. I use a mix of different therapies:

  • Cognitive Behavioral Therapy (CBT)

  • Eye Movement Desensitization and Reprocessing (EMDR)

  • Dialectical Behavior Therapy (DBT)

  • Accelerated Resolution Therapy (ART)

  • and other things like expressive (drawing, sand tray, collage) as well as good old-fashioned talking sometimes.

There are times of talking, and of silence. There are times of teaching, and times of sorting emotional stuff out into piles- what to keep, what to let go of. And there are times of laughing, and of celebration. But most importantly, therapy is your time.

what is the deal with the acorns?

Picture this… New York City, pre-COVID, my daughter and I had been mashing in as much of the Big Apple experience as we could. We had just finished racing through the Met. I was exhausted… my feet hurt and I was ready to find a subway and supper. Tasha, my daughter, says, “we are right by Central Park. C’mon mom, I want to show you something.” Off we went, but I was grumbling to myself. While I was stuck mid-grumble, she stopped, and quietly said, “Look.” In front of us was the John Lennon memorial, with a circle of people standing in a circle around it. It was obviously random people, as some would join the circle and one or two would drift away down the path. A man had a guitar, and there was singing. There was just this feeling of newness, and discovery, and reminding myself to stop and look around— to be present. I noticed an acorn by my feet, and I picked it up and put it in my pocket. I still have it and I have carried it with me ever since.

When I was creating this therapy practice, I was searching for the right name, and the right symbol. I looked through many different therapy sites, and honestly, some are depressing. As I thought about what I wanted my clients to feel, it was that same feeling i had in Central Park-

When people make a choice to attend therapy. I want them to feel renewed, to feel newness, to discover things about themselves, to be in awe of the magic and joy of life, to be reminded to be present.